private void sendCustomObjectTestToolStripMenuItem_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
var p = new Person();
p.Name = "Fred";
XmlSerializer ser = new XmlSerializer(p.GetType());
var sb = new System.Text.StringBuilder();
var writer = new System.IO.StringWriter(sb);
ser.Serialize(writer, p);
var toUser = new ArrayList();
toUser.Add(lvInConferenceWith.SelectedItems[0].Text);
ics.SendCustomObject(sb.ToString(), toUser);
}